The Munch: Lunch, Kinky Style

Munches: Expectation vs Reality

By ‘Dark_Lohena’

  • 1. Expectation: it’s clique-y

Reality: People will look at you, but more times than not, they will welcome you. You just have to take the time to get to know people.

  • 2. Expectation: Munches are full of One twue wayers who will down me.

Reality: Munches are actually full of newbies, and old veterans who are people just like you.

  • 3. Expectation: They are full of old people

Reality: There are people of all ages, and all walks of life

  • 4. Expectation: Everyone is there to try and hook up

Reality: Everyone is there mainly to visit with friends, and talk to the community. Very few are thereto hook up, and the ones who are rarely stay long term.

  • 5. Expectation: There are predators there, and they will hurt you.

Reality: The community will work it’s hardest to protect everyone from predators, and when they get wind of a predator, they (in majority of cases) will ban said people.

  • 6. Expectation: They are boring

Reality: They are what you make them. If you sit on your own, and don’t try to meet others, then you will be bored.

  • 7. Expectation: I’m going so I can hook-up

Reality: You will be disappointed, some may be there to hook up, but the chances are slim. More likely than not, the singles are there to meet others.

  • 8. Expectation: I don’t want to go to munches because I know everything there is to know about BDSM

Reality: -____- You will NEVER know everything that comes to BDSM, and if you think you do, you know nothing.

  • 9. Expectation: The people are just a bunch of weird perverts who have creepy fetishes.

Reality: But I am a FUN weird pervert 🙂

  • 10. Expectation: Everyone is going to come onto me

Reality: People aren’t there to hunt you down like the golden snitch. Just relax, meet people, have fun.

  • 11. Expectation: There isn’t anyone like me there.

Reality: You would be surprised, and if there aren’t who cares? Different walks of life, different kinks, different roles make for great friends, and they may know people who share your interests. And if you only look for people just like you, it is going to get stale, shake your bubble up a bit.

  • 12. Expectation: No one will like me

Reality: How do you know that? People will either like you or not, it’s not your job to makeup their mind, be yourself.

  • 13. Expectation: OH NOES! there are Doms everywhere

Reality: There are normal guys there, who happen to be Doms, and aren’t Big Bad Wolves.

  • 14. Expectation: Everyone is going to judge me.

Reality: And aren’t you doing the same thing right at this moment?

Just my two cents and change about munches, I attend them, I love them, and they are fun 🙂

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