A Naked Notion ‘BDSM 101’ Video Comes Under Fire In Social Media

A Naked Notion Youtube video series featuring Laci Green has been prepared with the support of Planned Parenthood and is intended to spur a discussion between young people and the adults in their lives regarding varying types of relationships and the difficulties young, inexperienced people are presented with in navigating Continue Reading

NCSF February Membership Drive

The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is fighting for your rights. Please support us by joining today! For the month of February, as Fifty Shades of Grey sweeps the nation, NCSF is holding a membership drive in honor of the BDSM activists, authors and organizers who have helped pave the Continue Reading

Sex, S&M, and the Newly Single Girl

Disclaimer: this writing is me thinking out loud. It’s not about fishing for compliments, it’s about processing some stuff. While it’s always nice to get those compliments, I’m much more interested in helpful suggestions/advice, and thoughts from people who experience this stuff in a similar way. I had an interesting Continue Reading

Is ‘Bedroom-Only’ Power Exchange Possible?

DEAR ERICA, I need some advice before I talk about this with my boyfriend. I’ve been wanting something more out of our sex life. I have always been secretly turned on by the idea of being sexually controlled and restrained. The thing is, I only want to try dom/sub sex. Continue Reading

BDSM: Slaves and Limits…Is There Such a Thing?

This post was prompted by a post on Fetlife asking about slaves and limits – not doing things just because the D-type gets enjoyment from it, but because things have a purpose. Slavery isn’t about limits or doing things just because. Slavery for me is about surrendering to the will Continue Reading