Tag Archives: dear erica

Love, Sex and Sexual Identity Confusion

DEAR ERICA, So, I’ve been with my man for the past 5 years. During that time, I’ve been dealing with my own sexual identity crisis. I love women and men, but I know of a lot of other people don’t...

Navigating Marriage & The Pink Fog

DEAR ERICA, I am a common law spouse of a male crossdresser. No one in the world would think this of my spouse as he is very much a domineering man during his normal wear, and has plenty of manly...

Is ‘Bedroom-Only’ Power Exchange Possible?

DEAR ERICA, I need some advice before I talk about this with my boyfriend. I’ve been wanting something more out of our sex life. I have always been secretly turned on by the idea of being sexually controlled and restrained....

How Do I Convince My Girlfriend that Crossdressing is Harmless?

DEAR ERICA, I’m a male and I really like wearing dresses and skirts, however, my girlfriend does not approve. She has misconceptions about crossdressing and doesn’t really take it seriously. I felt so unbelievably happy today that I was able...