The Argument That Just Won’t Die: Sex, Gender & the Public Restroom

DEAR ERICA, By the “old standards,” sex was determined by private parts, among other things. Does that not apply now in this “new age?” In this “new age,” if I have male body parts, but I feel like I am a female, I get to call myself a female, use Continue Reading

Is ‘Bedroom-Only’ Power Exchange Possible?

DEAR ERICA, I need some advice before I talk about this with my boyfriend. I’ve been wanting something more out of our sex life. I have always been secretly turned on by the idea of being sexually controlled and restrained. The thing is, I only want to try dom/sub sex. Continue Reading

How Do I Convince My Girlfriend that Crossdressing is Harmless?

DEAR ERICA, I’m a male and I really like wearing dresses and skirts, however, my girlfriend does not approve. She has misconceptions about crossdressing and doesn’t really take it seriously. I felt so unbelievably happy today that I was able to dress and attend my college classes. I felt alive Continue Reading