Category Archives: Dear Erica

Love, Sex and Sexual Identity Confusion

DEAR ERICA, So, I’ve been with my man for the past 5 years. During that time, I’ve been dealing with my own sexual identity crisis. I love women and men, but I know of a lot of other people don’t...

Navigating Marriage & The Pink Fog

DEAR ERICA, I am a common law spouse of a male crossdresser. No one in the world would think this of my spouse as he is very much a domineering man during his normal wear, and has plenty of manly...

The Argument That Just Won’t Die: Sex, Gender & the Public Restroom

DEAR ERICA, By the “old standards,” sex was determined by private parts, among other things. Does that not apply now in this “new age?” In this “new age,” if I have male body parts, but I feel like I am...

Is ‘Bedroom-Only’ Power Exchange Possible?

DEAR ERICA, I need some advice before I talk about this with my boyfriend. I’ve been wanting something more out of our sex life. I have always been secretly turned on by the idea of being sexually controlled and restrained....

How Do I Convince My Girlfriend that Crossdressing is Harmless?

DEAR ERICA, I’m a male and I really like wearing dresses and skirts, however, my girlfriend does not approve. She has misconceptions about crossdressing and doesn’t really take it seriously. I felt so unbelievably happy today that I was able...